There’s trash blowing around sometimes and other various stuff that makes it not nice. What to Say to Someone Who Lost a Baby.
Even if you have been spared the heartbreak of losing your baby, you know people who have lost theirs or will suffer such a loss in the future, and it's good to know what to say when it happens. But grief is grief.

Send flowers or give her a call to say you're thinking of her. Tending to a child’s grave is not fun, it’s painful.

With one in four pregnancies ending in miscarriage, stillbirth or neonatal death, the chances are we all know someone who has lost a baby. See more ideas about Losing a baby, Infant loss and Pregnancy and infant loss. I personally lost a twin pregnancy at 13 weeks, and I spoke to two mothers who have also lost children. What do you say to someone who’s lost a child? It’s beyond the natural order of things. For those of you who might not know – cemeteries mow the lawn and that’s about it. If you are wondering what to say to someone who lost a baby to ease their grief, don't overthink it. This might be a bit specific towards parents who have lost an infant, but I’d guess that a lot of this translates pretty well across all sorts of grief. The mother who loses a 3-year-old in a drowning accident is expected to grieve harder than the woman who loses a pregnancy at 8 weeks. People said some REALLY stupid things to me when I lost my babies. If you're pregnant or plan to bring children, it may be helpful to call and ask if it's OK before you visit. This is not the right time to be rational or offer explanations; simply say what you mean and be thoughtful with your statements.
I’ve thought about this from both sides, and I get asked often enough that I might as well write down my thoughts in case they’re useful.

Do be aware that someone who has lost a baby may find it very difficult to be around a pregnant friend or children of similar age to their lost child. A woman who loses a baby will remember that date forever, and it will always be a day when she is thinking of the baby she would have had. However, some bereaved parents are hurt because people with babies and children avoid them. Do give your friend or relative a call on the lost baby's due date.

For someone who has lost a child, it’s all too real, and they’ve been dealing with it in this crazy, ridiculously intimate way. How to write a beautiful condolence card to someone who has lost a child. The death of a child is just wrong. So, my standard advice goes something like this: Getting through the lost baby's due date is an emotional, stressful time. One mother lost her child in utero at 39 weeks, and another mother lost her daughter three days after she was born. Jan 31, 2016 - Explore kensgal1's board "When someone loses a baby", followed by 144 people on Pinterest.